Amanda Jane Qualitza-Roahrig, Born, 10/11/1966, moved on to her Next Great Adventure, 3/26/2019.Amanda was a mother, a daughter, a sister, a wife, a best friend, a gardener, an artist, an adventurer, a seeker, a quiet thinker, an animal lover, a coffee fiend, a loyal confidant, an unimaginably strong soul, a member of Naptown Roller Derby family, a welder, a reluctant dancer, a great hugger, a singer when she had a few, and her laugh was bell clear and genuine. She was a proud and fierce mother who created example after example of what it means to be a good human being for her son, Yeats. She was the best friend and soulmate, in the truest sense of the word, to her husband, Dylan. She would create reasons to spend time with her family, sisters, mother, father, nieces and nephews, or do so for no reason at all. If you earned her love, she loved you with everything that she had, if you burned her trust, she would simply move on without you with no malice, nor grudge. She was someone who brought together many types of people, ranging from everyday people to the freaks and geeks of society. Instead of limiting herself to one type of person, she loved them all and acted as a guide in this harsh world. She was the heart of her son’s and husband’s lives. Her legendary cakes adorned the tables of every holiday spent with family and were greedily devoured by all present. Her paintings, landscaping, masonry, and gardening prowess were an extension of her soul, and continue resonate with her presence. She is survived and devastatingly missed by her son Yeats Roahrig, husband Dylan Roahrig, mother Rebecca Qualitza, father Randy Qualitza, sisters Abigail Qualitza and Andrea Qualitza-Durbin, nieces Sofia and Thayer, nephews Mason, Dexter, and Emmet, and endless extended family and friends. There will be a small, private memorial for close family and friends on Saturday, April 6th at 2:00pm which will be immediately followed by an open house at her home in Irvington at 4:00pm for all friends, family, and well-wishers. In lieu of flowers, we are asking that potted plants, or potted flowers be sent, so that they may be replanted and cared for in memory of Amanda. Also, donations in her honor may be sent to the Just Giants dog rescue, http://www.justgiants.org, or to the Indianapolis FACE Clinic. Condolences may be left at indianafuneralcare.com.
Lindsey says
I am so sorry to hear of the death of Amanda. The passing away of a loved one is always with much sorrow. May we have faith and confidence in the Bible’s promise of a time when pain, sickness and death are a thing of the past (Revelation 21:3, 4). My condolences are with the family at this difficult time.
Danielle Latinovich says
I am so sorry for the loss of Amanda!!! I have known her for so many years and loved working with her! She was such a caring and awsome nurse!! I had more laughs and fun working with her in the “ liver lizard” days!! She had the best personality and excepted all for who they were! I can only wish I could be half the nurse Amanda was!! I will miss her stories about Yates and Dylan!!! My thoughts are with her whole family!! Dylan, Yates, Becky you all will be in my prayers!!! If there is anything I can ever do for you! Please don’t hesitate to call!! It was truly an honor to know Amanda!! I honestly adored her! Love you all!!
Danielle Latinovich
Laurie Cutsinger says
To Dylan and Yearts, Amanda was a phenomenal woman but I know I don’t need to tell you that. She will be watching over both Amanda was a phenomenal woman but I know I don’t need to tell you that. She will be watching over both of you. I am sending you my love and prayers.
Laurie Cutsinger (HHS)
Pamala Edwards Gatti says
Becky I am so sorry to hear about Amanda’s passing. My prayers are for you and your family to know that Amanda has moved on to a better place and will always be watching over her loved ones.
May you find peace as each day passes.
God be with all of you.
Pamala Edwards Gatti
Jill Thrasher says
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Amanda. I remember her well from our childhood riding bikes and making our secret club in an abandoned barn next to my house. Please know that I remember such good times at your your house, Becky and Randy, and playing with Abby and Andrea as well. Such a loss to you all. Hugs and prayers!
Christopher Haven Jones says
I wish I could offer a sentiment that would heal your pain. Words are of little comfort in these times.
I’m sorry that I can’t be there but please know that I love you all and you’re family is always in my heart and prayers.
John Durbin says
We send you our sincere condolences. Amanda was an amazing lady who will be deeply missed. We are blessed to have known her.
John and Barbara Durbin
Judy Thurston says
It was with sorrow that we read Amanda’s obituary today. We have not seen or spoken with anyone in your family in many years. However, when I saw her picture, I knew it was Amanda. Words cannot express our sadness. We have good memories of all of you when you lived in Mooresville. In fact, we speak about some of the funny things that we remember every so often. You will be in our thoughts and prayers during this stressful time. God bless you all.
Judy and Dan Thurston
Linda says
From your IU family…So many memories to cherish and carry with us! We love your gentle smile and easy laugh. I for one am jealous of your artistic style and beauty! Rest dear friend….we love you.
Lynn House says
I was so sorry to learn of the passing of your mom, Yeats. Sending peace and love from all of us at Herron High School.
JOYCE BALDWIN says
BECKY I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I WAS SO SHOCKED WHEN I SAW THIS IN THE PAPER. MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. YOU ARE ONE OF MY OLDEST FRIENDS AND SO I FEEL YOUR PAIN. WE HAVE EXPERIENCED MANY THINGS OVER THE YEARS BUT THIS IS THE WORST. I KNOW THAT YOUR DEEP BELIEFS WILL COMFORT YOU, BUT WE ARE NOT MEANT TO BURY ARE CHILDREN. MY HEART IS WITH YOU TODAY AND ALWAYS. WITH LOVE.
Nikki James says
Abby and Andrea: There is nothing better than a sisters love. I know these last months have been sooo hard for you. Try to remember her smile and her laugh. Remember who she was before the diagnosis. Remember the cook outs and crazy conversations. You are grieving, but know that grief is just love that you cannot give…. love you both – Nikki
Stacey Utterback says
Becky,
I’m so very sorry to hear about Amanda. I remember how fiercely you love your family and can’t imagine what you’re feeling. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs and love to you.
Chris Lambert says
Dylan, Yeats and Becky,
I am so sorry for your loss. I have known Amanda for many years and loved working with her! She was such a caring nurse and an amazing lady who will be deeply missed. We are blessed to have known her. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kim Gipson says
My condolences to the family of Amanda. I loved working with her when she was in Liver Clinic and will ever remember her stories about her big dog. The world was a better place because of her, for sure, but now she is in a better place.
Sharon Whitaker says
My deepest sympathies to Amanda’s family. My heart broke for you when I learned of her passing. She was a wonderful nurse and leader and always so positive! She will be remembered with fondness.
Janet Hellmann says
I didn’t know Amanda, but I wanted to say …what a beautiful & unique tribute to her life. She must be a great & loving soul..so sorry for your loss.
Michael Farr says
I worked with Amanda at IU Health Physicians and did recruitment for her team. She was truly one of the nicest people I have ever worked with! She was an amazing reminder to me to be kind to those you interact with. I will always remember that. She definitely made me a better person by her example.
Andrea Bensassi says
I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. I worked with Amanda, and even though it was a short time that we spent working together, I learned quickly what a unique and kind soul she has. Your family is in my prayers.
Joshua Guynn says
I worked as an agency nurse under Amanda’s clinic for a couple months. I learned a lot thanks to the opportunity she gave me. She was warm, kind, and very genuine. I’m very sorry to learn she has passed, but years later, she has left me with a strong impression. I’m deeply sorry for your loss.
Kristina Ragatz says
My deepest prayers and thoughts are with Amanda’s family… I worked with and under Amanda as a CMA for 6 years and was with her through her Chemo treatments… She was an amazing manager and friend. She will be missed greatly. Her family and friends have lost a great daughter, mother, wife and friend. Sending Hugs to them all in this difficult time…
Cindy Murphy says
Becky,
I immediately knew this was your daughter and am saddened to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathies.
While it’s been many years since we’ve worked together, or even that I’ve seen you, I pass your house everyday and think of you often. Please know I’m here for you if I can be of any help.
Cindy Murphy
Paul Kwo says
Dylan and Yeats,
I am so sorry to hear about Amanda’s passing. I feel fortunate to have known her and to have been able to see just a tiny portion of what Andrea contributed to our world. Andrea made everyone’s life better, from her friends and family to her coworkers and patients and we all richer for having known her. This world is clearly a less good place without her.
Paul Kwo
Marcia Swinney-Morris says
I am very sorry for your tremendous loss. Although it has been many years since our paths have crossed I always remember how kind Amanda was when she would walk her sister, Andrea, into our families child care center (Small World). On behalf of the Don Swinney family we are keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Lori Schafianski says
Dylan.. I am,so sorry for your loss.,You are in my thoughts! May you find strength to heal in the days to come.
My sincerest condolences. Lori “Uebel” Schafianski
Coleen Krasowski says
I’m so sorry for your loss. Amanda was a beautiful person. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Khalil Gibran says
For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and melt into the sun?
Melissa Hall Courtney says
So sorry Dylan and Yeats. This really hits home and my heart is truly broken for you and what you have been through and what you are going to continue to face. I have followed along and her strength and fight was just so amazing and inspiring.
Larry Gard says
Dylan and Yeats, I am so very, very sorry to learn of Amanda’s passing. All of my prayers for comfort and healing are with you, and your entire family.
Ashlee and Jason Boruff says
This entire family is like no other. From the day I met Amanda she was beautiful, fun, and positive. Condolences to the family.
Sharon Cunningham says
So so very sorry Dylan and Yeats.
Amanda was such a brave, strong, beautiful soul. Healing thoughts and prayers being sent your way.
Love, from Lefty and Sharon